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The Bereavement Circle GroupBy Laurie Martin, CTS No matter what the loss is, or whether the group is large or small, when I companion and walk along side others, I prefer to do so in a circle format. The practice of gathering in a circle is likely the oldest and most effective design for community teaching and healing. As a format, it is being introduced into every aspect of society, from pre-school to university, in churches and in the criminal justice system. It is an ideal format for the Bereavement Circle Group, where we can companion and support those who have experienced loss. Circles contain a ‘quiet power’ and eliminate any sense of hierarchy. They are protective, representing people helping people. Circles express wholeness, connectedness, and a sense of belonging. Think of the ‘circle of life.’ Joining a circle also gives us a sense of uniqueness among others – a sense of self. Circles focus on speaking from the heart, listening without judgement, welcoming different perspectives, tolerating other views, and working towards a consensus. Argument and confrontation are never visited within a circle. The Bereavement Circle is based on strength, love and power, but NOT victimization. The group focuses on healing and empowerment and is a useful tool in any healing process. Meeting on a regular basis offers hope – for meaningful connection with others, for understanding, compassion, and hope for a deeper spiritual awakening or awareness. It also allows us to inspire others, helps put things in perspective, and offers new ways of looking at and seeing things. The strongest principles guiding the Bereavement Circle include the support and acceptance of everyone’s right to their own beliefs, to accept that what they are feeling is okay, and to develop values that fuel and shape the act of healing. |
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